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Re: Building a relationship with an Indian Mother-in-Law
2/21/2005 1:48:52 PM
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| Hi,
Basically all MIL's should should treat their DIL's as their own daughters. I am from an Indian fmaily and thaz how I am treated. I never call my MIL as aunty/whatever int heir language. I call her as "amma" ie. Mother.
Yes some old customed ppl' take time to westernized culture. It's all in mind and heart. Other than sending gifts I think (if u like) you should also get to know more about her through her cooking or her other interests.
Once you have children things will definitely ... |
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Re: Non-Indians Wearing Indian Clothing
3/23/2005 10:24:44 PM
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| Hey CWCW,
I think snow has started melting!!!! Where are you hiding yourself : - )
As CWCW says, Carla you can just join us for any discussions....... |
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Re: Non-Indians Wearing Indian Clothing
3/24/2005 6:31:28 PM
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| Hey CWCW (Master of all Language)!!!!!!!!
When everybody sleeps you rescue animals. You are simply great!!!!
Hope you didn't scare them huh...........
Do you wear special uniforms for that??
What kind of animals you got to rescue CWCW.
Just eager to know.......
I like that shorcut words. (dba) huhhhhhhhh...
Got to learn a lot from u Susan. |
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Re: Non-Indians Wearing Indian Clothing
5/24/2005 7:20:43 AM
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| Hi,
You can wear all the saree colors. You can wear white colors with other contrast color border sarees. Sarees are different from East to West and North to South. In South women wear their traditional marriage sarre as: it is basically a long white cloth dipped in saffron and it is a tradition to wear it on marriage day as being auspicious. Now a days women change to silk sarees of same saffron color and wear it that day as the older tradition saree is cotton and it may look too ... |
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Re: Non-Indians Wearing Indian Clothing
11/29/2005 6:59:20 PM
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| Dee,
I understand about the "look" from an Indian women. Well instead of saying dirty, I can say Indians by nature are very curious and most of them observe others. It is pretty common in India. Here people do not observe others, other than stars and media.
If you go to any part of India it is natural that people stare at you/ strangers or who are different from them.
We are used to it. If you are new to observation, it can be bad.
Priya
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Re: Building a relationship with an Indian Mother-in-Law
3/22/2006 10:28:22 PM
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| Tabby,
I appreciate the way you have presented.
As you said, it is not race/ inaws problem. It is personality, attitude and how people perceive things in life. All women in this world do face prolem either it is a friend/ family. If personality clashes, hatredness arises. Sometimes people you meet may be disliked, but it should be within. When it triggers like a fire, all words come out.
Fajitha, I donno about your family. I a supporting just becos' they are Indians. I always give ... |
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Re: Building a relationship with an Indian Mother-in-Law
3/23/2006 7:01:58 PM
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| Thanks Tabby!!!
Know what, it is very difficult to analyze an another women no matter what. Ther are people who are open mind/ closed mind.
As you say attitude, I totally agree with you. We all have attitude, but it has to be defined when and where it shud be used.
Rather than creating probems, it is better to keep quiet and let it go sometimes. We are all human beings and should understand others feelings based on the situation.
Thanks for sharing Tabby!!!! |
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Re: Indian Court Issues Warrant for Richard Gere and Shilpa Shetty
5/17/2008 6:17:03 AM
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| Mel,
I donno whatz the big deal about it you know. People behave being conservative outside but its not and why the heck bother when those two are from the same profession. People really need to grow up when many things are changing back home. |
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